Tuesday, May 27, 2008

our 4th anniversary



Daniel and I celebrated our fourth wedding anniversary Thursday. It's been an amazing four years being married to the man of my dreams. I look forward to many more years. God truly blessed me with a great Christian man to be my husband and to be a father. Daniel has been my best friend since we started dating which will be 12 years ago this October...we were just kids in a little town...now, we're parents in the big city...



We were on vacation with Daniel's parents at Lake Eufaula for Memorial Day so we left Charlie with them and went out to dinner. Seeing as how Eufaula is not known for its great cuisine, we looked through the Chamber of Commerce's list of restaurants and found what we thought would be a good place to eat. We went hunting for it at the address that was listed and ended up crossing the GA line in the process...no restaurant by that name could be found so we cruised through the downtown square and found a restaurant called Cajun Corner and ate there. The food was good and we enjoyed time with each other. The service wasn't great so we didn't get dessert. We decided to head back to the campground and just eat a fudge round! Yum! :)

Tuesday, May 20, 2008

laundry...

This is how laundry gets done at my house...

It makes for a heavy load but someone has to do it! :)

By the way, my washer and dryer are downstairs so it's hard to leave Charlie upstairs while I run down and do laundry. So most of the time, I just take him with me.

Monday, May 19, 2008

business license update

My business license was issued today! Yeah! So I went and opened a checking account and applied for a credit card for the business. It's a scary thought still to me to know that I'm not even thirty yet and have my own business. God is so good!

Friday, May 16, 2008

a day for mommy!

Today I got to spend on myself. I received a gift certificate for a 30 minute massage for Mother's Day. You cannot imagine how excited I was to receive it! Between toting around a 20 pound youngin', to placing that same youngin' on the slide multiple times, to my pillow on my bed being awful, my neck, shoulders and back were in knots. I scheduled it for 11:00 a.m. since it was one of Daniel's Fridays off. So while he was Mr. Mom, I was being pampered. Oh, how I wish that was a weekly routine. Unfortunately, those glorious 30 minutes had to pass and I went about the rest of my day...greasy but relaxed and feeling good. I ran a few errands and actually had a peaceful trip to Joann's. I don't know what it is about that store but every time I go in, Charlie gets fussy. No. I take that back. I do know what it is. I spend waaaayyy too long in that store and it normally infringes on his naptime. My day also included a trip to Target, the post office, Walgreens, and Wal-Mart. Sounds fun, huh? It was nice to just pop in and out without having to get Charlie in and out of his car seat that many times. I was able to get a hair cut today as well. Don't you just love having your hair washed?

Coming in second behind the massage, a great part of my day was getting my business going. I recently registered my business with the gov. and got my employment identification number (EIN). Sorry I didn't post about that. I just forgot about it. I am now officially incorporated and have a business called "Melissa Ward Architecture". Today, I went to the bank to get a checking account for my business and a credit card for it. Unfortunately, in Georgia, you have to have a business license, as well as the EIN, in order to do that so off to the courthouse I went. After this form and that form, I applied for my business license. The lady told me it takes somewhere between 24-48 hours to be approved for a license. Since it was Friday afternoon at 4:00, I figure it will be Monday before they even look at it so I'm hoping to hear something on Tuesday. I'll also find out how much it's going to set me back financially to get that license. I'll then go back to the bank and get that ball rolling.

Kennesaw has some strict guidelines for running a business out of your home like you can't have client meetings at your residence, you can't have regular deliveries, no signage on your property that shows a business exists there, etc. The list goes on. The only ones that really hurt me are the no client meetings and no regular deliveries. But, until I get a plotter, the regular deliveries shouldn't be a problem. And, I'll just have to find a good meeting spot for client meetings whenever I get to that point. I don't really have a good spot here in the house anyways, other than my dining room table, and that would require me keeping it cleaned off and my living room in decent order with no toys strewn all over the place.

Anyway, it's a nice feeling to get my business off and running. It's a scary feeling too though. That's alot of responsibility and alot of pressure but I'm just taking it a step at the time and learning as I go.

So, it's been a productive day. I had a little adventure tonight when I went to get Charlie some Benedryl at CVS. I first had a hard time finding the childrens' Benedryl. Shouldn't it be with the adult's Benedryl? You would think! So after asking the pharmacist where it is and making up my mind whether I wanted to buy the brand name stuff or not, I make my way to the counter and lo, and behold, the power goes out. Well, come to find out, customers can't stay in the store if the power is out so I'm standing at the register with the Benedryl in hand, in the dark, and am asked to leave. No big deal though. So, I set the box down and out I go. But who wants to wait for the power to come back on? You could be there for hours. Back in the car, where I've already spent my whole day, to the next closet store that 1. has power and 2. has Benedryl. That ended up being Wal-Mart which is about 5 miles away. 5 miles! That's not far, you say. It is when you pass a Publix, a Walgreens and another CVS to get there. And, not to mention, I despise Wal-Mart. I've also made a trip there today already.

Once I get back home, the power is still out. By now, it's almost 9:00 pm. But, thanks to Daylight Savings Time, it's still a little light out. So, Daniel and I are trying to give Charlie Benedryl in the dark. The other thing the nurse wanted me to do was to take a pen and draw a circle around the red whelp on his leg so that if it's bigger in the morning, we can easily tell. (Oh, back up. Charlie has a big red spot on his leg where he got his shots last week. It appeared a day or so ago and is growing so I called the nurse to check it.) With flashlight in hand, Daniel tries to do this but the pen won't write. Figures. I take the pen and write on some paper and the lights come back on. Hallelujah! Benedryl goes down. Big ink circle on leg. Off to bed. Oh, no. Power goes out again. We do around and settle in for a while in the dark. I remembered that I have an oil lantern so I rummage through the closet to find it. I find some matches. Strike it. Flame. Lantern lit. Power comes back on. Doesn't it always work that way?

Wow. That was a long post. If you've made it this far, either my stories are quite entertaining or you just really love me. But, since I don't think I've left out much from my day other than the mundane usual stuff that goes on during one's day, I'll call it a night. Whew! What a day! Thank you, my darling husband, for giving me "a day for mommy" (even though it was quite eventful). I love you. (Psss...he even cleaned the kitchen today! woo hoo!)

Wednesday, May 14, 2008

tooth #2

Charlie cut another tooth yesterday. It's the top front right one. The top front left one should cut through in the next day or so. I actually think it already has a little bit through. It's hard to tell. Just wanted to share...

Saturday, May 10, 2008

Charlie's first birthday party

Charlie has his first birthday party last Saturday at Swift-Cantrell Park. It was touch and go with the rain that morning so I was quite frazzled that day trying to get decorations for the garage in case we had to have it at the house. Luckily, the rain stopped and it was decent enough to have it at the park. The theme was "1st birthday" with blue and green balloons. No special decorations other than the plates, cups, cake, etc. Just God's beautiful handiwork in nature. We were under the large pavilion there which is, unfortunately, not beside the playgrounds but we managed. Charlie had lots of friends and family attend. I think we had around 30 or so. The kids ranged from itty bitty (4-5 months) to Charlie's cousin, Branson, who is 6. There were about 10 kids. I was excited to see the turnout. The kids seemed to have a great time playing on the playground. There was also a little play area for the littlest ones. We ate the cake made by Aunt Laura. It was dee-licious! Charlie really seemed to enjoy it. He didn't dive in like alot of kids but just kinda picked at the icing and ate it. But his face and hands were covered in blue icing when he was done...

We opened the gifts everyone brought for Charlie. He got lots of books, which he loves, and other toys like blocks, puzzles, a shape sorter, etc.
Charlie also visited the playground. He got to swing for the first time and got to go on the slide for the first time. He enjoyed both.


Charlie was a trooper for the whole party. Not one cry except when I took his juice cup away to refill it. He did, however, crash when we got home.

That night, we had dinner with all our family and a couple of friends (that might as well be family) at the house. We had waited to open all their presents that night. Man, did Charlie rack up! These included a rocking horse from Grandma and Grandpa; a water wheel play table from Aunt Stacey, Uncle Mike, and Branson; a lawn mower and Auburn clothes from Aunt Laura and Uncle Jimmy; some clothes and money from Big; and an inflatable pool from Terry and Kathy Moore. Gram and Papa gave Charlie a beautiful toybox!

So, Daniel and I have got to find room for all these gifts along with the slide we bought him. It's not like Charlie didn't have enough already! And, unfortunately, everything won't fit in the new toybox. Luckily, the slide, water wheel play table, and pool are all outside toys.

Now for the special thanks that I need to extend. A special thanks to Daniel for putting up with my perfectionist mentality and for my spazzed out attitude while trying to decide whether to have the party at home or at the park that day. You are my pillar of strength and sanity in times like those. A special thanks to Grandma, Grandpa, Gram, Papa, Aunt Laura, and Aunt Stacey for all you did to help that day. I really couldn't have pulled all that together without you. You were the best workers a mom could ask for! And a special thanks to Chris Haywood and Jonathan Collins. Chris took all the pictures that day and Jonathan was able to capture the event on video. And, last, but not least, thanks be to God for getting me through the day! :)

Here are some pictures from the day...


Wednesday, May 7, 2008

12 month check-up

Charlie went for his 12 month check-up today. He's doing well. The nurse asked me things like how much he's eating, if he's on whole milk, and how much milk he drinks during the day. She also asked me things like if he can wave, if he can play peek-a-boo, if he's pointing to things that he wants, if he's calling me mama, if he's pointing to his nose or eyes when I say the word. The answers to those questions is no except that he is just learning to wave. He's gotten interested in people's eyes, and mouths so we'll start working on that one alot more. I always feel like I'm slacking when they ask me these things because most of the time the answer is no. I just have to keep telling myself that Charlie is on his own schedule. He'll learn these things when he's ready. The other thing is that most of the time I don't know that he is developmentally ready for stuff so I don't even know to start trying to get him to do these things until after these visits.

As for his weight, height, etc., Charlie weighed in at 20 pounds exactly. He is 29 3/4" tall and has a head circumference of 19". I keep saying he's got a big noggin and this proved it because he is in the 90th percentile on this measurement for his age. The pediatrician charted it and said he had the head size of a 21 month old. No wonder I have trouble getting shirts over his head. He's doing fine heightwise. He is in the 55th percentile. However, the pediatrician said he hasn't gained much weight since his last appointment which was at 9 months. She expected him to gain more. He's in the 15th percentile for his age. He eats well but has become picky lately so it has slacked off significantly so I'm on a mission to bulk him up...got any suggestions? I mean, he's been eating birthday cake for a week now. That would have put 10 pounds on me easy. :)

Charlie also got three shots. It was him immunizations for MMR, Hepatitis A, and chicken pox. He, of course, screamed but was fine when we left. Other than that, everything else checked out fine.

Tuesday, May 6, 2008

Charlie's first tooth

As mentioned in a previous post, Charlie has cut his first tooth. I finally got a decent picture today and as promised, I have posted it.


Charlie and I went to the park today. I was tired of being couped up so we went for a stroll. I was so excited that Charlie actually kept his hat on. I finally found one with a strap. He tugged on it a few times but gave up pretty easy. After that, I guess he got used to it. Charlie got to get on the swings today as well. He really likes that. He also didn't fight me to stay in the stroller. Usually, I end up carrying him half the way but today he just played with his little toys and watched all the people and trees go by. The sun was beating down on us since there were no clouds in the sky. Other than that, it was a beautiful day!

weaning...accomplished.

Ok. Ok. I gave up the last feeding today. I wasn't happy about it but I knew it had to be done. Charlie, as I expected, didn't even put up a fuss. He just took his cup of milk with breakfast, no problem. I should be counting my blessings that it was this easy but in a way, I kinda wish he had atleast shown some signs of missing it. Oh well...mission accomplished.

Sunday, May 4, 2008

Charlie is one year old!

Charlie turned one year old today! What an amazing year it has been!





Just one year ago today at 11:11 am, we welcomed our little boy into the world...




We had Charlie's party yesterday at the park. I'll post more about that later.